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“Stop Falling For The Okeydoke”

“You hit the nail right on the head!”

~ Bishop Felton Edwin May (Retired) of the United Methodist Church

“This book is a very personal and powerful examination of the “lie of race” that has served those in power well throughout our history and right up to the present day. [His book’s] approach dispels pervasive myths and untruths and illuminates the history, science and politics of this destructive ‘lie’.”

~ Myla Kabat-Zinn (daughter of Dr. Howard Zinn, author of A People’s History of the United States)

“I have known Stephen Tillett for many years, and he has been making big moves all his life. And now he is leading the way again with this incredible book! This book is leading edge thinking and it will have a big impact on America and the world!

~ Dr. Willie Jolley, Bestselling author of A Setback Is A Setup For A Comeback and Achieving Greatness with An Attitude of Excellence

Dear Reverend Tillett,

I just wanted to let you know that I really liked the article you wrote that appeared in the Capital today. I completely agree with you that “race” is a lie, and it is continually perpetuated in all sorts of subtle ways – when the census asks what your race is, when studies report demographics on race, when doctors’ offices ask you what your race is. I find it irritating and offensive that so many people think that what I look like on the outside has such a huge impact on my behavior, health, thoughts, and emotions. As a social science researcher, I believe that continuing to divide people by the color of their skin so we can talk about differences between “races” is unethical and abhorrent.

I was so pleased and gratified to see that somebody else thinks that race isn’t real either. 🙂

Keep up the good work!

~Colby,  Annapolis MD

Dear Stephen,

I am pleased to say that your book, “Stop Falling for the Okeydoke”, is a ‘must read’ for anyone who wants a quick, sensible, and understandable discussion of what is, and has been, going on in this country for at least the last three hundred years.  It’s time to admit that God created one race, the HUMAN race, and that human beings created racism.  Anything we can create, we can destroy.  It’s time to destroy racism.  Reading this book will help people to realize how, when, and why it’s time to get busy and do that very thing.

The material concerning ‘tolerance’ is especially important, I think.

~ Jane Elliott

CTD, LLC., located in Maryland and established May 2, 2017, is a new company devoted to seeking and disseminating truth and dispelling misinformation and disinformation.  

Rev. Stephen A. Tillett was born & reared in Washington, DC.  He earned his Bachelors of Arts from American University and his Masters of Divinity from Howard University School of Divinity, both in Washington, D.C.  

“I am passionate about every reflection and representation of the human family coming together, not in a superficial “Kumbayah moment,” but in a manner that respects each one’s diversity and is devoted to full inclusion of every other one of us.”

No Matter What?

No Matter What? I am compelled to express my disgust at the determination of the Senate Judiciary Committee and the White House to ramrod through a Supreme Court (SCOTUS) nomination no matter what.  While Brett Kavanaugh might meet some of the standards for a Justice, as far as his legal training and experience, there are other factors which weigh heavily with this nomination.  I am well aware that “elections have consequences,” so whomever the president is when a SCOTUS vacancy occurs has earned the right, by virtue of the votes of his/her fellow citizens, to nominate a person to fill the vacancy (unless, of course, you are President Barack Obama in the winter of 2016). There are so many things that are being done out of order now that undermine any façade of comity or cooperation, that we find ourselves in a constant state of toxic politics.  I am concerned that our democracy is being sacrificed on the altar of political expediency and ideological purity.  The virulent desperation of the “Christian right” to end access to legal abortion has emboldened some senators to abandon any pretense of “deliberation” in order to force this nomination upon the nation before the upcoming elections, no matter what. I am especially troubled that some women would dismiss, out-of-hand, a complaint about sexual assault or harassment from other women just because it is ideologically inconvenient. Surely there must be some other potential SCOTUS nominees who would desire to overturn Roe as fervently as Kavanaugh, but without his baggage. While I expect, but don't excuse, that cognitive dissonance from men in positions of power, I expect better from women. For some senators to earnestly assert their "sympathy" that Dr. Ford was assaulted, but to also assert that she has mis-remembered who assaulted her is insulting and laughable. This is not about ideology nor the usual bloviations about “right” and “left.”  This is fundamentally about human decency and respecting the claims of women about the abuses they have faced, whether there were eye witnesses to it or not (such as with the accusers of jailed comedian Bill Cosby.  I’m just sayin’…) One has to wonder what the daughters and granddaughters of some US Senators think about their father/grandfather’s politically dismissive attitudes toward sexual assault. This obsession over abortion overlooks a few things.  First, less than two percent of all the cases the SCOTUS hears will involve abortion.  Second, even with the White House, both houses of Congress and a conservative majority on the SCOTUS, they will probably never end all access to legal abortion, because that would deprive some candidates of their go-to campaign issue every election season. I must note here that as a minister of the Gospel, I know and believe that all life is precious, but not just pre-born life! Some of the same people who are obsessed to end abortion and insist anything conceived must be born, no matter what, are also the people who oppose programs that would enhance the standard of living for the children once they have been born.  How can one insist a child be born but then oppose AFDC and SNAP benefits, Head Start programs, health care for said children and free or affordable college or vocational education?  These people are not Pro-Life, as they assert, they are Pro-Birth!  After the baby is born, they’re on their own! I believe if we made the world more child (and parent) friendly, there would likely be a lot less abortions. Third, most of the political leadership, while manipulating the abortion issue to their own advantage, probably don’t really care that much about it, but are more concerned with the other 98 to 99 percent of the rulings the SCOTUS makes.  And many of those rulings from a “conservative” (i.e., corporate and pro-business) court will lead to negative outcomes for most Americans, such as, rulings made asserting that corporations deserve the same rights as people. The court makes many more rulings that damage our nation concerning the burgeoning security and police state in America, employer/employee disputes, the environment, voter suppression and gerrymandering and any number of other matters that are of greater concern to many Americans. This is about a lifetime appointment to our highest court.  Irrespective of how long it may take, we have to get this right – no matter what! Submitted by Rev. Stephen A. Tillett, Pastor of Asbury Broadneck UMC, Annapolis, MD, President of the Anne Arundel County, Maryland Branch NAACP and author of Stop Falling for the Okeydoke: How the Lie of “Race” Continues to Undermine Our Country (www.StopFallingForTheOkeydoke.com).

Seeking Our Better Angels

Seeking Our Better Angels I think all decent people are heartbroken about the senseless murders of Gerald Fischman, Rob Hiassen, John McNamara, Rebecca Smith and Wendi Winters. As someone who served on the Community Editorial Board for six months in 2014, I have a deep appreciation for the work, dedication and due diligence that goes into producing a quality newspaper every day. I do not always agree with some of their positions or conclusions, but I am also confident that their positions are not random or malevolent, but well thought-out, from their perspective. I understand that we will not always be in agreement, but I believe that we can at least be decent in our interactions, even when we disagree. That’s necessary to affirm given the precarious and oftentimes ugly era we are enduring in the public square right now. In spite of all that, most of the response to the shootings has been decent and humane. Humane is an apropos word right now. Being humane means to be compassionate, kind and “inflicting the minimum of pain.” How often, in our public interactions, have we approached things from an almost scorched-earth, take-no-prisoners perspective? But the thing that struck me most during the prayer vigils that were sponsored last week, was the fundamental spirit of humanity and decency that was on display. The vigils drew very eclectic groups of people together that might not usually be in one another’s company. We were there for a common purpose. To remember the people who lost their lives, to offer support and comfort to their families and coworkers, to praise the first responders for their quick response, and to affirm the work of journalists and journalism, even in difficult circumstances. And these crowds gathered in spite of personal or political ideology or ethnic variety. However, all of this decency-in-the-moment raises a big question for me. Why can’t we be decent to one another ALL the time? Why does it take a tragedy before we will put our pitchforks and torches down and interact with one another in a respectful way irrespective of our “differences?” I don’t know about you, but I am past tired of the nonsense that we have come to accept as “normal.” Your being in a different political party from me does not make you the devil. Your having more or less melanin in your skin should not be the decisive factor in how I see or interact with you. While it is difficult to see what “good” can come from a tragedy like this, I would like to suggest that I believe #AnnapolisStrong can become more than a momentary catch phrase for a grieving community. If we become resolute in our determination to interact with each other decently and respectfully, Annapolis and Anne Arundel County may be able to show a way forward to our beleaguered nation that calls us back from the muck and chaos to a place of decency, even when there is not unanimity. In the latter chapters of the Book of Genesis, Joseph encounters his brothers who sold him into slavery and tells them “you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good.” I firmly believe that if we decide…if we choose to treat each other decently and humanely all the time, we will find our way to a better place politically and become a true community. I felt a palpable sense of community last week, a feeling that no matter what, we’re in this thing together and we will only be able to make it through this – together! I quoted Dr. King at the vigil last week, who said, “we must learn to live together as brothers (and sisters) or perish together as fools.” I choose to live civilly with each of you, my brothers and sisters, no matter what! I close with this quote from President Abraham Lincoln, “We are not enemies, but friends. We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory will swell when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature.” That’s Annapolis Strong! Pastor Stephen Andrew Tillett Asbury Broadneck United Methodist Church

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